look, i'll be honest, i've been fucking since i was younger than i want to admit, so i'm probably not the best person to help you with this part. but i'm happy to be a sounding board, or to tell you when someone's sketchy.
you do need to make quota this month, though, so maybe try something a little low-pressure for your first couple of times. if i'm remembering correctly, there's a cam-service available here if you want no-contact, and there's at least one brothel, and the scratch or other clubs for no-pressure encounters.
well, if you're trying to do it the socially-acceptable way, you usually meet and get to know someone, realize you're attracted to them, find out they're attracted to you, and go from there, but it sounds easier than it typically is.
here you can be pretty up front about it, at least. if you don't mind the potential embarrassment, you can network post about finding quota partners and learning your likes/dislikes.
does the idea of sleeping with someone you don't know well make you uncomfortable?
it's just practical, nate. a month isn't a long time to figure all that shit out, especially if you're not used to any of it.
okay, how about this, then. you come by the scratch one night, i'll introduce you to come of the people i work with. if nothing else happens, you might at least make a couple of friends there.
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( so that's a yes. )
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do you have a pretty good idea of what you're attracted to?
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( apocalypse and all. )
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did you like kissing the person you kissed?
[ shit. how do you even handle a virgin when you're trying to be helpful?? ]
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yeah, but i already know what and who i'm attracted to, you know?
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you do need to make quota this month, though, so maybe try something a little low-pressure for your first couple of times.
if i'm remembering correctly, there's a cam-service available here if you want no-contact, and there's at least one brothel, and the scratch or other clubs for no-pressure encounters.
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here you can be pretty up front about it, at least. if you don't mind the potential embarrassment, you can network post about finding quota partners and learning your likes/dislikes.
does the idea of sleeping with someone you don't know well make you uncomfortable?
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to an extent, yeah. i don't like the thought of being in a vulnerable position in a place like this.
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okay, how about this, then. you come by the scratch one night, i'll introduce you to come of the people i work with. if nothing else happens, you might at least make a couple of friends there.
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but, you know, keep your timeline in mind, as much as it sucks.
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